Recently, my ex broke up with me and blamed it on family issues. He tried to tell me it was only temporary, just needed some time to think. It only took a couple hours before he called to let me know he misses me, I was totally confused. I keep calling him everyday and he just couldn’t talk.

What a way to break up with someone and then make them seem like the needy one. I think he is totally confused because he denies the fact that I have been calling, says I don’t care and that he still misses me. What? Sometimes I swear he calls just to be mean. Every time he does call, it is only to tell me about his feelings. He does not seem to care about mine. One second he says he never wants to talk to me, the next he can’t live without me. Talk about being confused about your feelings.

It is almost natural for one person in a relationship to get confused and even scared when a relationship starts to get serious. This time around, I am all about how to get ex back. This is a special relationship, a little communication and listening is what is needed. We are really in love, in love and scared. A little turbulence in a relationship is ok, after all, neither of us have been here before. Relationships can hurt, it is part of falling in love. From what I understand, the best way to get ex back is to be patient and listen. Lots of listening.